Bhai, do you beat up everyone who leans on to your car or bike in Parking? You assume they will leave after sometime. It's just pressure tactics by PLA, nothing more.
You handle an escalation with equal force, not disproportionate force, atleast on border where no bullet has been fired since 50 years. We also have interest in keeping LAC conflict free.
The analogy given is not the most appropriate. Their actions are not so innocent.
I suggest that you contact ex or serving military personnel to get an idea of the extent of cumulative land grab by the Chinese over the past 50 years. Yes, no bullet has been fired across for 50 years but we have lost territory. It won't be in thousands of sq kms but would be still significant. Slowly bleeding us. We are forced to make peace with them on their terms. The supposed border line in 1963 and now will be different. The loss is conveniently explained away as differing perceptions of the border. When the land is not ours and is no man's land where is the loss?. This is the narrative given to manage the loss.
If it were the Pakistan border and the Pakis had slowly changed the border lines in their favour all hell would have broken loose. We have different set of yardsticks in dealing with the Pakis as compared to the Chinese.
I agree since the power disparity is large between us and China we need to first build up our strength before confronting them.
But let us not trivialise the actions of the Chinese by comparing it with a simple car issue. The current action by China is a breach of trust and violation of previously agreed confidence building and border management rules arrived at after mutual consultation. They violated agreements. India could have done the same thing but we scrupulously adhered to the rules. Stabbing your opponent in the back is not bravery but cowardice which China did. If all nations disregard signed agreements on border management what will be the result.
A coward has stabbed us in the back. What China has done could have been done by us anytime. They surprised us with their treachery.