No not answered, you only gave an own explanation for the AESA, that you can't back up with any official source that they are happy with the radar now.
Yes higher loads:
That's an B60 with 4 x Hakeem PGMs, if Rafale had the same weapon integrated, it could carry only 2 at the wings and 3 at max if 1 would be added to the centerline.
The CFTs free the inner wingstations of the F16s for additional weapons, while replacing 1 fuel tank ...
4 x Hakeem, GBU 16, JSOW, Harpoon, HARM
4 x multi racks for up to 8 x GBU 12
for example, while Rafale has only 2 mid wing stations and the centerline to carry A2G weapons next to fuel.
Even in CAP the B60 could carry up to 6 x Meteor if it would be integrated + 2 x WVR missiles, while Rafale can carry only 4 x Meteor + 4 x MICA.