Not what I asked, but ill play...
For me the biggest problem is that it looks like you compare Russian "choice" with Western "choice" like two apples, like it was a matter of choise, nothing more. I do not see it like that. The "Eastern" part of Europe, especially Russia, Ukraine and Belarus are way behind EU in all development areas. They are corrupt countries, you can even call them Kleptocracies, the wealth from the natural riches goes to the Elite. Look at Russian economy and infrastructure, all the factories that work there and are competitive are branches of Western companies.
Excuse me... In "home of free" (I had to say it) how many people make decisions and how is wealth distributed? That's right: 1% control policy and hold to some estimates near 40% of capital. I could do more but its not thread about bashing US. Russia corruption has got nothing on US corruption, after all US kills entire nations for its interest.
For me this question is about standard of living a country can provide to its citizen, that is the solely measure of success. In that game "west" wins every time. We are all in this planet for so short time, that we all should have a change to a good life. Let me give you few examples from my everyday life. I live 20 km from Russia and can compare:
Not really measure of success, its something else: Live and let live. IMHO. You have a choice you don't like Russia? DON'T GO THERE! They wont come to you, they wont force they're values on you. WEST WILL.
1.When I go to Russia, I see one serious car accident in a day, in Finland I cant remember when I last time saw one. ( Russia has 10 times more road accidents than Finland per capita)
True, but so what? IMHO its more of a running joke on Russian people more than anything else. How does that anything to do with Ukraine?
2. When I go to Russia, I cannot drink tab water, in Finland I can
Don't go there.
3. Russia in the Kola peninsula, you have areas that all forests have died in 30km perimeter around towns with heavy metal processing plants, Northern Finland is the cleanest place in Europe
Ok but its on Russian territory so who cares? In us almost every car has a v8 and its a country that has poorest gas millage of any nation but so what?
4. When I go to Russia, I have to keep cash, so I can pay to bribed police officers when they stop me for no reason, In Finland the most corrupt free place in the world.
Again don't go there. Those corrupt cops wont come to Finns. BTW I have different opinion but why would I discuss this?
5. When I meet my friend in Russia I have to be very careful, they are very hospitable, but I pay the bill most times. In Finland a school teacher earns 3000 Euros a month, in Russia 300 Euros a moth
You don't have to. Quite obviously nobody is forcing you to pay anything. Let me give an example: in SFRJ pay would be (adjusted for today) similar to Finland. Now its less than that, and thats what west did with sanctions and forcing their system upon people here. If west is so gold why then every country on Balkans is crumbling?
6. When I talk with my Russian friends, I know that they have to be careful at what they say. There is only one official truth, that you have to use when more than 2 people close by
That gave me a good laugh... I mean there is official Finnish bullhorn media (Moscow times) that openly lies by spewing west propaganda in heart of Russia.
7. I was following a project, where they planned new railroad from Finland to Russia. it turned out that one kilometer of railroad in Russia costs 2.5 times more than in Finland. Yet the salaries are lower? The whole country runs on corruption for every investment dollar, 1.5 dollars goes to corruption
Obviosly you haven't been in prosperous EU/nato members Bulgaria, Bosnia (I dare you to go there and try saying half of thing that you say in Russia) and so on.
8. When I go to Russia, I usually bring some gifts to my friends father who is a pensioner, pension is so low that you cannot survive on it the most cases without help
So what? Pro west part of ex-yu pensions keep nation afloat! At least 1 in 3 has no job (officially). In practice its worse. West values my arse.
9. When I go to Russia, I see well dressed military men, salaries in the military are the highest in Russian society, how can the country develop if doctors and teachers earn pennies compared to securty and military people.
Because that's internal policy of Russia and again it has nothing to do with topic.
10. My friend works in the government, he cant visit me in Finland, because they are told to avoid travelling to EU. Whant kind of country restricts people like that?
He can but he is not recommended to do so. You seem like a nice fellow, I dare you to come in Serbia (pro west as you say it) and try to share your beliefs next to ruins of Zezelj bridge of west domocracy. In short, you can travel, but I would not recommend it. Go to EU/NATO member of Croatia and visit burial ground of Jasenovac death camp
You see, these are just few examples. People in the Russian "sphere of influence" are stuck with problems that we got rid of over 50 years ago. Who wants that to a fellow man? I am not racist, but can you explain to me why these problems are most evident in countries close to Russia, like Russian themselves, Ukraine, Belarus, Greece and Serbia? Is it the Slaviness? Orthodos faith? Legacy of Socialistic system? Tell me, because I do not know.
Russians are not forcing they're values on anyone. And please SLAVIC AND ORTHODOX. Orthodox IS
christian by the way. If you ask me, slavic people are stubborn as hell we dont like anyone forcing our values on them and main thing is you cant force anything ON Russia. Also one more thing about slav people (and trust me on this one): If you do manage to force your belief on them they will become "bigger pope than A Pope". IMHO.
Everything that made SFRJ great was made in (wait for it)
Socialist Federal Republic of Yu. Most prosperous country on Balkans was forced into submission and now we have 10 times lower incomes if you can get a job at all than in socialist period. Explain to me about "democracy" please?
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Jouni, you didn't answer my question. Not one. There is only one reason why I wrote wall of text so you could understand how similar this scenario is. I will repeat it one more time:
1.Why the "civilized" world of west has such double standards?
2.Why didn't they support integrity of federal state (SFRJ) and later of Serbia itself when they so rabidly support it in Ukraine?
3.What makes their approach in Ukraine different than one they constituted here?
We already concluded that you support western values. Please elaborate above mentioned examples.
And please lets not talk about "why Finland is great and Russia is not", lets talk about US/Russia approach in Ukraine.
My opinion is
pure unadulterated shameless geopolitical and abuse of legitimate interest.