F*** the mutual respect. A country like us who is so ignorant about self defence deserves no respect. If India was really deserving of respect, it would have its 46 squadrons, and 3000 artillery pieces of 155 caliber.
Bro, why the anguish and anger. Granted that the Chinese are sitting on our necks.
But you have to understand that context. An example, India and Pakistan have a pact to not attack each others nuclear facilities and exchange lists of declared nuclear installations.
Now if the Porks suddenly decide to violate the pact and launch a surprise attack on one of our nuclear installations, it is fully possible that they may succeed. It is treachery. Responsible nations normally do not violate bilateral pacts.
The Chinese did exactly such an act of treachery. India and China have signed many border management pacts which lays down certain rules to avoid any accidental flare up between the two armies. India believed that the Chinese will not violate the agreements. It is not at all difficult for one side to take some unilateral action as long as the other side does not have prior intelligence of the action. India could have stabbed the Chinese in the back by suddenly occupying an unmanned piece of land in Tibet. So the PLA did nothing heroic. Remember the Indo-China border is very long and not guarded everywhere. The manpower required to physically occupy every inch of the border would be prohibitive.
Of course one can have issues with our response to the Chinese action. Countries deter potential aggressors by the threat of tit for tat. If the Chinese can occupy our land nothing prevents us from occupying Chinese controlled land elsewhere on the border.
We have not chosen to follow that course of action for reasons unknown. Maybe the Government has some genuine reasons to believe that a tit for tat response would not be the most appropriate at this time. We can only speculate. Could be that they believe we can force the Chinese to withdraw without waging war.
Regarding shortage of equipment I agree we could have been better prepared. Our country makes the acquisition process of weapons too complicated and time consuming.
But I wish to point out that various experts have not given China any overwhelming advantage over India. In absolute terms they may have more numbers of weapons but they cannot deploy everything on our border. Their supply lines to Tibet from the Chinese mainland are extended and can be destroyed in war. Our supply lines are much shorter. So I believe a rough equivalence exists between the Chinese and us.
By no means will a war with us be a cakewalk for them.
As far as our air assets go, I feel acquiring additional Rafale squadrons is the most practical step. If the French are willing to manufacture here and also provide us some technology all the better. The Rafale is better than all of the planes with the Chinese Air Force. Forget about the J20. It is still not a proven platform. It may take the Chinese even a decade to perfect it.
Everybody agrees that the long term solution to the needs of the Indian Air Force is in developing and building indigenous planes. We have started the journey with the Tejas LCA.
Regarding Artillery we are at a turning point with various options available. Things can only improve. Dhanush, ATAGS, Sharang, M777 and Baba Kalyani gun systems. The list is long.
While I understand your frustration with our level of preparation especially in fighter aircraft and artillery please understand India is not standing naked before China. The Chinese understand our strength and this is precisely the reason why they felt the need to shift two J20 fighters into the Tibet region from mainland China.