12arya
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OFF TOPIC........uninterested pepl just ignore the post.
i hate fights by nature and post depression and other probs, it affects me quite severely. i have been very open and honest here abt the issues i have and have usually conceded and apologized when i am in the wrong and behaved with utmost politeness. i had openly replied to him that i suffer from depression and asked him to stop yet he was continuing the vitriol at me!!! i had to block the person for it to end and to protect my sanity. we can always agree to disagree but no such maturity from him. Indians generally don't know how frightening depression can be unless we go thru it.
now i have learnt my lesson and have decided to keep quiet and try not to respond emotionally or does not respond at all.
:biggrin2: thank u buddy. i got the defence jingoness from my elder bro who is the original defence dork. he used to have loads of military videos on his pc. i grew up watching it and once i grew up, i took up the mantle of military nut(don't have his knowledge though) from him. hoping to pass it down to my nephew and nieceReading the first half of your post I thought you might be gay - my bad in assuming everyone on the forum is a fan'boy'
Female defence jingos rock!!!
I'll be sure to address both fanboys & fangirls from now on
guys, there was a lady whose presence here actually emboldened me to join here. i can't remember her username. but her post i read was abt defence minister sitaraman...........as being someone whom modi can directly control and hence she was chosen to b DM! does any one know who she is? i remember it as a woman...i cud b wrong. nvr saw any other post from her sadly@lavina has not been posting for some time.
edit: was that the name? doesn't appear in username suggestions.
probably on india forums....the tv and movie forum. almost all of my girl pals r there and xtremely active. even when i post defence stuff on fb, they show no interest at all. some yrs back i browsed on that forum for some 2 mnths and then lost interest. mega fights happen btw members regarding fan ships(on screen couples) which turned me off quickly and i left that forum.Damn! Just one intellectual of the opposite sex on DFI? Where have all the girls gone? Probably more interested in Bollywood!! Jeeez!
i don't think female presence has brought any change buddy. during my short time here there has been 2 mega verbal wars that i faced. there has been some name calling involved directed at me. again, judging by all of ur swearing capabilities it was nothing:biggrin2: but the thing is i do not know much swearing and i cudn't hit back much. the reason why i felt terrible was i was discussing with another member both times and the other person randomly butted in(hence the off topic disclaimer at this post as well) and started the abuse! may b he hated the female presence in DFI and that triggered him. or may b he gets some high from abusing other pepl!!! and 99% of members here have been courteous to me and the mods have been completely helpful.Well, let's hope the presence of a lady will help temper down the vitriolic dudes on the forum
Before you blurt Look-who's-talking, let me remind you that I never initiate the vitriol but only respond in kind
i hate fights by nature and post depression and other probs, it affects me quite severely. i have been very open and honest here abt the issues i have and have usually conceded and apologized when i am in the wrong and behaved with utmost politeness. i had openly replied to him that i suffer from depression and asked him to stop yet he was continuing the vitriol at me!!! i had to block the person for it to end and to protect my sanity. we can always agree to disagree but no such maturity from him. Indians generally don't know how frightening depression can be unless we go thru it.
now i have learnt my lesson and have decided to keep quiet and try not to respond emotionally or does not respond at all.