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Let me break your post down but this will be my last reply to you if you repeat the nonsense you have done here:
And Indian women are beaten up after marriage and after marriage. All Indian men are monsters
Girl and boy's family agreeing on a preset transanction for marriage = Dowry. Girl's family not fulfilling dowry = cheating, Boy's family demanding more for the marriage = Extortion.
@Bangalorean this is what I was talking about
Women dont have to be "personally" independant for rejection of such groom sir. The woman's father is more than independant to reject such groomYeah, they can but it's not so easy all the time in a nation where most women aren't so independent especially in rural areas that makes most of our population.
Yes, sure. Indian women are raped when are married and raped when they are not married. They are totally not safe before marriage or after marriage in India. you are absolutely right. Rape culture ---- ithe problem is women don't get safety when they marry and they don't get safety when they don't get married.
And Indian women are beaten up after marriage and after marriage. All Indian men are monsters
The problems change but problems remain.
Good. You see the problem there? It arises because of the big expectation of the Girl's family too - due to hypergamy. So Girl's family is in some cases equally responsible for the dowry problem. This is the part which none of the brainwashed zombies like you see.Parents don't know what to do when they don't find suitable men, the concern regarding their own image etc.
This is extortion and this is not dowry and I am 100% against it. Dowry =/= extortion. Extortion is a crime which we should not tolerate.Conservative parents where they make the kid's choices even after they have turned adults, lack of self respecting men. Fooling of women in love, getting married and then blackmailing family, beating wife, concern about child getting deprived of good future. Reasons go on and on. If we just don't have men who don't say no to dowry, well, women are unlikely to just say no forever.
Girl and boy's family agreeing on a preset transanction for marriage = Dowry. Girl's family not fulfilling dowry = cheating, Boy's family demanding more for the marriage = Extortion.
@Bangalorean this is what I was talking about
And men should do all the work and worship the women and their womb? You guys are awesome. Your idea of equality is not true equality but infantalisation of women to have no responsibility in jobs, working, raising the family, while men should work bending their backs and provide and keep women in a pedestel. Yeah ---- it. Your mix of tradtionalism/feminism is toxic to men. ---- traditionalism and ---- feminism. Both men and women are equals and should be treated as such in all aspects and It should not be phoney intellectual bull shit you people sprout.I like the people of Assam in this matter. I have heard they don't even know much about dowry and feel disrepctul to even get the offer. I hear stories of how the men there simply deny even the gifts like TV, fridge, washing machine etc as they believe its a man's job to provide for his family. Other states could learn something from them
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