It is better to be emotional than personal. I like to speak from my own experiences than posting links or someone else's work, I find it more real.
My wife's grand father was killed by Pakistani looters in 1947 his widow (Grand mother) raised my mother in law alone. My wife's uncle (mama) and brother in law (jija) were killed in a bomb blast in Rajori by a Muslim guy whom he gave job in his shop. He threw grenade when when both of them were inside shop, as he left for lunch break. When they were airlifted to Jammu I was there to receive both. Mama died on the way to jammu and Jija died few days after.
My uncle (fufar) has his arm amputated as he was shot at travelling in a bus during militancy in Punjab. Brave bus driver didn't stop and saved my more lives.
My father was shot at twice as he escaped unhurt (He boasts all the time 'Only he could do it because he was a good football player'
) ducked and jumped off his scooter, saved his life breaking into a close by factory to hide. He was the first one to come out in the morning to cast his vote as there was boycott and touts of Khalistani gangs were standing on roofs to intimidate voters in 1992.
My uncle (real chacha) was kidnapped and beaten for two days as he refused to print Khalistani propaganda materials. He was released as one of the misguided guy found out him from the same school they did their matriculation. He still runs the same printing press today. Ironically his neighbor who succumbed to their bullying and printed Khalistani material was picked up by CRPF and got killed during torture.
My point is I have seen couple of deaths, commotions and experienced depressing days just because I lived in that geography or because of my ethnicity/ religion. You can not have stronger opinion than me or more reasons to take avenge like I have.
But under no circumstances I will make it personal because I know there is more at stake, that is union of India; a continuity of our civilization.
Regards.