You are taking the whole thing in different path. I am talking of diplomacy and you are talking of cost.
US supplies arms to both Saudis as well as NATO. But look at the level of diplomatic trust in between NATO and US and Saudi and US. Saudis are simply getting off the self product and not tech with it.
Look at US and Pak relationship. Pakistan too was getting arms from US, but a fall in diplomatic relation meant a halt of arms sale to Pakistan. US is not asking its consumer product manufacturers to stop sale in Pakistan. Trust deficit in between any two countries would directly impact its strategic interest first. Arm sale is and tech sharing is all dependent of trust buildup. US has opened up its arms market to India only after we have earned enough trust.
Bill Clinton on record has told that middle class of India is larger then the whole US population. But this had not resulted in US arms sale to India. The arms sale took up only after diplomatic overtures in between MMS and George Bush govt. So comparing a Arms market with General market is illogical to start with.
Let us not get confused. The whole argument and reasoning is
Arms sales are the only barometer to measure trust between nations.
Why have you chosen to ignore the significance of the data I provided.
As per you if arms sales do not happen mutual trust is absent.
In the year 2018 Canada and Mexico purchased almost zero arms from the US. Does this mean that mutual trust between Canada and US and also Mexico and US went down or disappeared.
Coming closer home look at the relation between India and Bhutan. Does India export large quantities of arms every year to Bhutan. We have supplied only light infantry weapons like rifles mostly and certainly not heavy weapons like 155mm artillery or tanks. Neither have we given them fighter aircraft. I doubt whether any weapons were given to Bhutan in recent years. If you have information to the contrary please post it with references.
The economic relationship between us and Bhutan forms the bedrock of the ties. The focus of Indian assistance is mainly economic - hydropower plants, roads building, information technology, space etc.
The major security assistance that we give Bhutan is that Indian troops are stationed there in limited numbers to guard against a Chinese attack.
Mauritius is another neighbour which is very close to us. India has not provided advanced weaponry to them. The focus is on economic help.
On the other hand there have been instances of arms being sold only for the money. Various ragtag outfits in Africa and Latin America have bought arms from China and other countries.
Economic relations between the US and Pakistan are not flourishing. Pakistan is under serious economic pressure also.
Pakistan would not mind if the US stops military aid but allows American multinationals to invest billions of dollars. Pakistan would simply turn to China for arms.
Every country generates money for military spending only through normal economic activity. Money earned through taxes finance the military budget. Ultimately economic inter dependence binds nations closer.
I think we can close this discourse. If you are not convinced we can agree to disagree.