You are right. If we ask them to pay for it, more people will start hating the government. Just continue doing your work and don't antagonise Kashmiris.
I don't get whether you said in a serious or sarcastic tone.
But one thing is clear, day in and day out, we're hitting Terrorists and sometimes their supporters. We've reduced the influence of Hurriyats and Geelanis. Let's not try to break what we've done till date.
Most folks are scared or don't have enough reasons and courage to irritate armed men (for you and me they're soldiers, saviors, but not for Kashmiris). Give them reasons and everything will be lost.
US, Russia and British lost to Afghan in the same way. We suffered losses in Sri Lanka in the same way.
Let's not do those mistakes