Yesterday, I chatted with a group of girls, they all think the actor of <Slumdog Millionaire> is so charming, and the major reason of their views is that the boy never changed his heart, and loved the actress even when the girl changed a lot.
That let me think of our love, and many times we find it is easy for us to fall in love with other girls, And it can give rise to curious situation, we may get attracted by several girls at the same time, and we may lose our interest very soon. So there may have something wrong with our love curve.
I think the normal distribution curve is so incredible, and the law of development of many things can be described using it. as it did in the case of the creature, which must get through its own life cycle.
And our love line can be similar to it, too. As the chart below, the ordinate axis represent the depth of our love(D),and the abscissa represent the time(T) .Look at the red line, it is the original one, and what we can do is to 1,shift the curve to the right(to the blue curve) 2.try to slow down your pace to the top(A) .
But I think it is very hard to handle, when you are dating with your girl friend, you may want to give her the whole world, and she may get bored with you, that means you reach the top point (A) before you get married. It is a technical work.