There is nothing condescending in what he said i think. He just wants to show that the US considers both india and pakistan as strategically important and in its eyes both are equal. May be he just wants indian and pakistani military interactions take place so that it builds "some" trust and "goodwill" between the two. And when i say strategically important, one is needed to fight against taliban and another to counter perhaps china.
The US General may not have been condescending, but he did display sincerity without any idea of the perspective and the animus bred by history. Yet, on the other hand, he did promote with total sincerity the cause of his country – get the Taliban problem solved with the US interests in Afghanistan protected and secure.
If India and Pakistan can reach an accord, then the US can get the Pakistanis to cooperate in solving the issue wherein the Pakistanis would leash in their Taliban and exert the pressure on the Aghani Taliban, who are but puppets on an ISI string. To this end, the US has goaded India and Pakistan to have umpteen
baatcheets, which have produced no result! Thus, it is in the US interest to calm Pakistan of her apprehensions of India and having India bend backward to accommodate Pakistan's desire in Kashmir and elsewhere.
One wonders if there is any common interest of India and Pakistan to fight the Talibans. Pakistan wants the Taliban to take over Afghanistan i.e. the Haqqani coterie, which is of no interest to India since they are funded and organised by the ISI and is only keen to ensure that Afghanistan becomes a surrogate of Pakistan. That would hardly be in Indian interest. It will merely be of assistance to Pakistan to then go back to the one front threat and funnel the unemployed Taliban to create greater havoc in Kashmir and other parts of India.
The current unrest in Kashmir is the harbinger of things to come, if Pakistan has her way.