^^^Nitesh hit the nail on the head. A devoted housewife would not have as many fans as a prostitue would... That is not diplomacy.
Pakistan happens to be a piece of real estate owned by Pakistan army which is ready to act as mercenaries to highest bidders. So, they have greater number of supporters(or protectors or mai-baaps). India, on the other hand, happens to be a country that was recently freed from clutches of the ravaging imperialists and is trying to come up in this harsh world.
As for the diplomacy, both India and Pakistan, suck. India and Pakistan frequently squander advantages by self-goals. India has had the problem of leaders wanting to become legends by being large-hearted(the very same people are not ready to be large-hearted towards their countrymen). Pakistan had a problem of not having leaders at all, they have only had `Dalals' or brokers...