You are assuming things and planting them on other people. 'Chinese influence' is what you are thinking. I am more concerned about the Nepali narrative of the Indian state. Don't believe me? Have a look yourself.
http://**********/threads/backoffindia-in-nepal-trending-in-twitterosphere-but-why.399271/
We don't need their friendship at the cost of our long-term interests, we cannot force them to love us. Words like love, trust and friendship effectively translate into "bollocks" in Geopolitics.
Let them rant, India must impose her will, because if she doesn't she will be compromising the interests of Madhesi people who have always been pro-India, and India will loose her influence in Nepal forever. The new Nepalese constitution makes sure that the pro-India voices are under-represented, we cannot allow that.
India's foreign policy is not defined on the basis of forum comments and twitter trends, please do not trivialize the matter without going into details.
They must know without doubt that if they cross the red line, they will get Indian stick up their butt.
One more point, do not ever paste links to the other forum, you are providing free advertisement to them. I know a lot about the Indian members on that forum, they will speak sweet words so that they won't get in the bad books of the administrators.
Let them know that India which can come to their assistance during disaster can create national disaster, and even division if they ever try to play with her interests.