You have to learn a lot, Go through threads and debates before posting such replies ..
Btw, You quoted someone who was not talking abt Arjun at all, But TATA IFV with BMP-2 turret ..
That is the context of technicality not about a soldiers free will in his family which is Army itself, Which is what we are talking about on first place ..
Unlike in Civilian Society, In Army we rejoice on commonality ..
All these religious and other events are just an excuse for our kind to get together have a party ..