the brothers can give you real good pain.For me, there was no pain in love. It was always fear of her 3 brothers!
Let me stir the pot (hopefully you can understand the language)For me, there was no pain in love. It was always fear of her 3 brothers!
U make me think of a pub in my hometown called "True Love" :cool2:That what you think when you have gone through all this sh!t
Is there anything in this world called "True Love"
I used to think in the same line until I fell in love I loved her as if she were my kid.
This is the wrong place to seek advice or even words of comfort ,
too many "Mentalists" out here . .
You seem to be onto something.Yeah, I think everyone needs to go through this shit at least once - it teaches you a lot of lessons about life. Years back when I was much younger and very immature, I contemplated suicide, lost 10 kg weight, made an ass of myself, and all that. But that experience did me a world of good.
I have realized that it is pointless to think about all this filmi "true love", "saath jiyenge saath marenge stuff". With subsequent girls, I have my fun, treat her like a queen, and realize that it might end anytime - I constantly keep myself open to the possibility that it might end any moment. When I see indications that it might end soon, I start looking out, and end it myself before she can. I never ever cry and beg and chase her - I did that like a mad fool the first time, for weeks and weeks. That just makes you an object of contempt and derision.
I echo that. Your girlfriend looks up to you for strength, courage, manliness etc. If one goes and begs, then he loses whatever image he might have made in front of her and she becomes more determined to leave him for good. @Bangalorean is right, it rarely works out like films in real life. The girl simply isn't going to fall head over heels just because you happen to claim that you love her. It's a lot of real hard work, no free lunches. It can all end at a moment's notice.You seem to be onto something.
Basically one should never beg a girl because you fall even more in her eyes. Take it like a man or go cry in the corner where no one sees you.
does your username have anything to do with Sassi Punnu the famous love tragedy ?I hope no one misunderstand the title and wrote oh.,aw oh..am oh.,oya !
No, my name is just a south Indian(tamil) name. No connection at all to that.does your username have anything to do with Sassi Punnu the famous love tragedy ?