That is the fun of being the master in a dictatorship, you can bloody well do anything regardless of the cost. The leaders in democracies aren't so fortunate.
Nonetheless, Indian political leadership had always been weak kneed before western powers. Once the psyche has set in the character of a state, it is bloody difficult to shrug off the tradition. Unlike China, India always stressed on minimal loss and minimal impact of foreign wars in domestic arena. The result is Nehru running to UN in 1947, not allowing the IAF to bomb the shit out of Chinkies in '62, Indira Gandhi handed over victory to Pakistan in Shimla agreement, Vajpayee not allowing IA to cross IB - all are the signs that Indian military had always been let down by the political masters.
Even today, we refused to fuck up PAF after they intruded into India and tried to bomb our army base in J&K in 2019.
We basically don't have the guts to use our muscles.