I am fine if some women chose suicide. I respect their personal choice.. But, it was not all consensual.. Some where forced as well.. What I am not fine with is the mentality of many in the Hindu right,to glorify these episodes of suicide and even murder..
There is a battle recounted by Babar in his Diary: Babarnama, where Babar attacks a fort held by the Rajputs.. Rajputs on the verge of defeat, kill all their women by sword, before going to their final battle.. Now, I admire their courage, but am not OK with their killing of their women folk..