Very valid point, we usually avoid fighting and conflict, because historically we know the cost of war. Unfortunately the other side doesn't care and have nothing to lose, they spawn kids like zombies and don't care if one or two of their kids die due to fighting or conflict, they can marry more and spawn more. Whereas we have everything to lose due to the value we attach to a human life. I'm not sure what is a solution to this mindset. This is most probably caused due to the decaying of kshatriya dharma among us, probably rejuvenating kshatriyata (which in its essence is not just about fighing but fighting for the right cause after having trained to perfection) is a solution ?