Sailor,
india has never been interested in forming a separate talim country by dividing sri lanka and believe me if india wanted to create a separate state nothing was stopping india from doing it in the past and even today nothing stops us but no one really supports the concept in main stream politics of our country, on the contrary india has supported the SLAF by suppling not so lethal equipment. state politics are different and for that to understand you have to visualise a situation where aussies are being slaughtered in some other country, what would be the reaction in your country. sentiments are generated and certain sentiments are in the extremes and what you heard was the extreme which has appreciation in certain corners but is never the main stream thought of the state. the major concern for all of us in the country are the innocents who are being used as shields and have got stuck in the cross fire, the only request are making to both the tigers and the govt is let these innocent civilians have a safe passage something that is echoed by the usa and the un. as has been sighted, the resonance of extreme sentiment was more of a election propaganda and now that the elections are over, all such talk will be off air and no more reference will be made in the future, even sri lanka understands and appreciates these facts and their govt has said this is more of an election talk.
as has been pointed out by yusuf, one of the finest moments of indian armed forces, foreign policy and diplomacy was the creation of bangladesh. so as to understand the reasons of creation of bangladesh one has to read history but you can judge the level of atrocities in the east pakistan (now bangladesh) by just scanning at the astonishing figure of 3million people who were systematically killed by the pak army prior to the creation of bangladesh and you would appreciate the anti-west pakistan sentiment in populace generated because of this genocide. the superior west pakistanis never gave power to their so called brothers on the east who were labeled as bengalis and biharis but never as pakistanis and even today their so called brothers who are till date referred as biharis live like refugees in bangladesh and have not been allowed to get to their so called mother land pakistan. that is the extent pak army discriminates amongst their so called own, even today pakistan army is working on another bangladesh in baluchistan where every year numerous innocents are disappearing but that is for another topic.
as far as nuclear civil plants are concerned, india has no problem with them acquiring till the time it is being put to use for civilian purpose and if it is coming from russia we really do not have any problems with it, most of the places where russia is involved, india diplomacy is reasonably comfortable till the time the other party of course is prc of pakistan. with the present government in bangladesh, india for the moment is reasonably assured that we have a non-hostile neighbor. our concern about this country is if they are made into a radical society like the one in pakistan and for the moment we are working with groups in that country who do not want such a thing to happen, will we be successful, only time will tell but surely there are sings emerging that have us worried.