Lets not forget that we are still under-developed country. We need West to achieve our goals. We need FTAs with EU & others. We need global ties where US calls the shots. We can not even trust Russians completely. Russia is much busy with its re-structuring & will be busy for another decade.
Globe does not recognize India as exactly a harmless country yet. Our any wrong move will result in US lining up India into queue of harmful countries like Iran, NK, etc. We need to use US at least for our short term goals.
i concur with that view completely and have endorsed the same point past so many times on this very forum, but this in no ways means that americans can do what ever they want to with the pakistanis but when it comes to our needs they take their hands back, they need to start accepting us as equals in certain ways than may be on most something bush's america had started doing which today seems like a distant dream now. even he used to look other way when we used to raise our concerns about pakistan but still we were getting our work done on other aspects, nuke deal being one, which is how the whole thing needs to work, but today that is not happening.
we certainly should not be seen as looking to buy american influence at any cost, it is seen as a sign of weakness and if that is the way we are going to deal with them, rest assured, in another decade's time our foreign much like the way pakistan's foreign policy gets framed, will be framed in washington, as such even today it is greatly influenced from them and seriously if we had not got a wake up call on the afghan issue we would have been toeing their line more and more.
let us maintain the "independence" that we so cherish, something we have built after great pains.