Transforming India's Concept of Marriage

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Absolutely. Arranged marriages do lead to disillusionment too but the disillusionment is greater in love marriages. Love isn't necessarily compatibility.
That is true.

I have seen what my cousins told me about another relative who married a chap from my school as the 'love of the century'. I knew the chap. He was flamboyant and a good sportsman, but a downright knave. They married soon after their schooling days were over. Very soon, this 'love of the century' soured and it ended real fast. It turned out that he was a philanderer.

The the girl thereafter married three times - always based on love. - and now is divorced again.

I think love is nice, but as the years go by, it is companionship which grows and mutual dependence is what that holds the marriage together.
 

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This is the reason why emotional maturity and character is more to be considered than looks . Once a philanderer always a philanderer.

That is true.

I have seen what my cousins told me about another relative who married a chap from my school as the 'love of the century'. I knew the chap. He was flamboyant and a good sportsman, but a downright knave. They married soon after their schooling days were over. Very soon, this 'love of the century' soured and it ended real fast. It turned out that he was a philanderer.

The the girl thereafter married three times - always based on love. - and now is divorced again.

I think love is nice, but as the years go by, it is companionship which grows and mutual dependence is what that holds the marriage together.
 

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That is true.

I have seen what my cousins told me about another relative who married a chap from my school as the 'love of the century'. I knew the chap. He was flamboyant and a good sportsman, but a downright knave. They married soon after their schooling days were over. Very soon, this 'love of the century' soured and it ended real fast. It turned out that he was a philanderer.

The the girl thereafter married three times - always based on love. - and now is divorced again.

I think love is nice, but as the years go by, it is companionship which grows and mutual dependence is what that holds the marriage together.
sir i can give you hundred case where they sing song and love of the century and one year after "kutte nikal ja yaha sai":rofl:

Love is part of marriage but not the whole concept of marriage.

This is the reason why emotional maturity and character is more to be considered than looks . Once a philanderer always a philanderer.
Kuute ki pooch kabhi sidhi nahi hoti but people do change if they want to.
 

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Its rare. Philandering is like alcoholism. lolz.

sir i can give you hundred case where they sing song and love of the century and one year after "kutte nikal ja yaha sai":rofl:

Love is part of marriage but not the whole concept of marriage.



Kuute ki pooch kabhi sidhi nahi hoti but people do change if they want to.
 

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lol. The problem is these philanderers love alcohol too and after a few drinks they don't particularly care about morals. :rofl:

I would say more ,you can't compare women beauty with alcohol :O

Blasphemy
 

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lol. The problem is these philanderers love alcohol too and after a few drinks they don't particularly care about morals. :rofl:
First rule of nasha is "Never mix the two as very very bad for health"
 

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But when you advertise your coaching class you have to specify what subjects you teach otherwise how will u get students. :lol:
You have to buy prospectus for that which is 100 Rs worth.:taunt:

This is India and here you just open anything and lots of people will be there ,too much youngsters these days.
 

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lol. at least reveal which degree your coaching class leads to. :rofl:
You have to buy prospectus for that which is 100 Rs worth.:taunt:

This is India and here you just open anything and lots of people will be there ,too much youngsters these days.
 

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Hahahaha, looks like you have #Mychoice in your syllabus. (male version or female version or both):rofl:

Curiosity attracts masses.

My coaching class guarantee social maturity in 90 hour.

"Pursuit of happiness"



You my friend have a valid point.
 

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