If you stop pointing finger at pakistan . See that would be a step of progress.
Now, lets go back a little and rewind the history. When Vajpayee as a PM visited Pakistan (May 1999), we came for peace and Pakistan stabbed us in the back with Kargil. At that time, mind you, there was no finger pointing and this is what India got, back stabbing.
Let's go little forward again. In Dec 1999, with complicity of ISI an Indian airlines passenger was hijacked with 176 passenger aboard and was landed in Kandahar, Afghanistan where Pakistan friendly Taliban govt. was at helm. Three terrorists were released in exchange for the release of plane hijack hostages.
Let's go little further. In Dec 2001, Indian parliament was attacked by pakistani based terrorist organization Jaish-e-Mohammed (JeM), killing twelve people. Surprise, surprise the leader of JeM is none other than Maulana Masood Azhar, who has been released during kandahar plane hijack episode.
And of course we have Mumbai attacks as an latest example.
Before any of the above episodes, India was not pointing any fingers at Pakistan and the result is everyone for to see. There is no remorse what-so-ever among the Pakistani establishment in bleeding India by thousand cuts, which is an official policy established by your own Pakistani Army and ISI. Just check the videos of rabid dog, former chief of ISI Hamid Gul, who now openly supports Taliban.
As you can see, finger pointing or no pointing, Pakistani establishment (PA and ISI) is not going to change much like a dog's tail. The only way to take care of it is to cut the tail. I hope that day will come sooner than later.