Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to Islam

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    Is it propaganda or politics? What it is, I’ve never understood, but this I know: whenever I mention I was raised in a western UP Jat family, people are shocked. “You are not like a Jat!”, “How can you be from western UP?” they say. I tell them, you really don’t know how liberal the Muzaffarnagar we grew up in was.

    And what can I say of people whom I met after I married a Saiyyad Muslim? On the one hand were those for whom my birth identity did not fit their stereotype. It wasn’t the caste they had issues with. It is what they associated with the region—of Jats being ‘rough’ and ‘quick-tempered’. I should add that they also considered Jats ‘honest’.

    My manner, my education, my interests were a shock for most Muslims. They could not believe there could be a Jat who was dignified, who could read, write and think. There were even some Muslims I met along the way who believed I had been “rescued” from Hindus. What can I say about them? Truth is, the environment of my hometown those days was without petty restrictions or conservatism. It was one of learning, engaging and seeing, then believing.

    Truth is, I have seen a reality most don’t, having lived on both sides. And much of what I saw would equally shatter a Hindu. Don’t get me wrong: the family I married into are Shia, Saiyyads. They had no issue with any caste or religion. In fact, they would tell me they like everything about Jats; their cleanliness, their habits, their way. What they had an issue with is something else: the way Hindus treated their women.

    You see, being Muslim, they could not comprehend why Hindu families feed their women last. “We don’t like this habit of Hindus giving women leftover and cold food,” they would say. “Shouldn’t educated, wealthy, Hindu elite also lead by example and give their women a share in property?” they would ask.

    Once, my husband and I went to Pakistan for seven eye-opening months. The way the men treated women there was so different. They were not demanding at all. There were no constant commands like “Bring me hot tea! Get me fresh rotis!” No restrictions on visits, no imposition on planning the future, no dictation on which social circle to develop or how to run the household. All this was left to the woman. And this did not depend upon the ‘kind’ of woman one married. Women, I saw with my own eyes, were all waited upon hand and foot. I distinctly remember thinking to myself: what on earth have we (Indians) done to women? And that’s on both sides.

    Then I realised: We must stop focusing just on the Khalapar and Abbu Puras (Muslim neighbourhoods of Muzaffarnagar). We must lift ourselves out of conservatism, stereotypes.

    Baja kahe jisse alam baja samjho
    Zuban-e-khalq ko naqara-e-khuda samjho.

    Born into a Jat family in Muzaffarnagar in 1952, Hina Khan married a Muslim in 1976


    Jat, Muslim By Marriage | Hina Khan
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    People often tend to generalize a caste or religion based on what they perceive from their surroundings....I have met forward hindus & muslims and also backward hindus and muslims....Disrespecting women is not a characteristic of any religion, it is the culture that some still choose not to give away...
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    So the chap married a I married a Saiyyad Muslim?

    Now, how many claim to be non Saiyyads?

    Aren't they all descendants fo the Prophet in the subcontinent?

    What bedtime stories. Muslims treat women as equals!

    In India, Muslims are still liberal, but in Pakistan?

    What a joke this woman is spinning in her story!

    Is she suggesting that Pakistan women give cold tea and stale rotis to their husbands?

    One wonders what in the name of Scott should she say of this of Pakistani women.

    I am not being cussed. It is just that people come to conclusions so quickly having not seen reality and basing their opinion on fleeting impressions.
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    That Pakistan part is seriously rivaling propaganda coming from North Korea, the lady seems to be a lunatic.
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    Can confirm, I feed all my women cold left over food.
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    Women are treated in the manner in which their husband and their families have being groomed through generations.

    It has nothing to do with community,m caste or religion.

    Some are lambs and some are beasts.

    But the remainder are pragmatists who realise what is moderation, if they want to lead a happy and blissful life.

    BTW, how come she changed her name to Hina, if she married into such a liberal and good family?
     
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    Yeah! And Jebus fed million people with a loaf of bread and tinkle of wine
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    Silly woman. `Naya mulla...` and all that.
     
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    and we shall write an article on it :lol:
     
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    Go back to Pakistan,,Why are you living in Muzaffarnagar..We Indians don't need you / your help here..Till date have you done any favor of India..And yes I am a Hindu and no women in my family is ever feed the "bacha khucha" infact we take care of them more then your pakistan all the time..For 1 or 2 don't blame the entire society....
     
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    LOL hahahahahhah Trust me I've never seen any Muslim Family feeding their women first.....Alrighty, 1) this Hina Khan is BSing, 2) The Shia family she is talking about is one off case that feeds their women first or with the whole family, 3) Moreover, she found Pakistan a more open society for women! WTF LOL hahahhahaha

    Clearly, this author is trying to spew lies we all know what is the condition of women and minorities under Islam!

    There is an old saying - 'Naya muslman zada allah allah karta hey'.
     
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    I came, I saw, I read, now I'm going back to reality.
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    A flame and troll thread.
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I


    its all about the cultural background and the circumstances people live with. i faced a question one time, why india women/ house wives eat at the end and eat whatever food is left from others, mostly in village areas? and i replied, first its a habit that a person who cook, generally eat when rest of them are finished. and second, the villagers living poor areas themselves do very hard work, who have very less to think about home when they back on evening, make sense?????

    and, life is tough for these people, they dont pass time on the side of swimming pool and come for dinner after drinks :nono:. they have to live with whatever life offer them, and this is a practice of the same :thumb:
     
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    Re: Hindus feed their women cold leftover food , says Jat convert to I

    Men have to go out to work.

    Their eating first is not surprising.

    Women still have much household work to do.

    In villages, it is the same reason.

    I am sure such a routine is beyond any cultural norms.i
     
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    I always demand hot fresh rotis that too buttered :D
     
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    I always knew that leftists are the worst kind of MCPs ....:laugh::lol::rofl::taunt1:
     

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